I bought my very first evo recently and have owned it for about 3 months now. It's a 2010 GSR. Overall I am very happy with the car except the suspension. It is a little too stiff/harsh for my tastes. I am assuming the suspension is supposed to be stiff for the autoX crowd or whatever, but the ride seems too bumpy for me especially on these rough a** Oklahoma roads! What do you guys suggest to soften up the suspension to get that so called "cadillac" ride? Any options?