did you check your passanger headlamp fuse? maybe that might be it, i highly doubt that your hids did it seeing as how hids run the SAME amount of watts as your stock. check your fuses first, and let us know what happens 
that POS relay harness does not work, i tried it and it still gave me problems, a waste of my money, i had to go through a different route, and NEVER had a problem since then. no splicing thoughcheck the fuses if thats not the issue you might need the Jrox DRL relay harness, which can be found on here for $35